Jonathan 8-18-11 ~ Easy Crossover

Jonathan 8-18-11  ~ Easy Crossover

First impressions are young male; medium build, brown hair, plaid button down shirt, jeans, brown dress boots. Hair is long enough you could run your fingers through it but not too long. Age about 25 with dark brown eyes. From Thomasville GA.

Died of cancer or some disease having to do with the liver, possibly due to heavy drinking. Date of death 2008. He felt guilty for being irresponsible & leaving his family behind, even worse that he left them emotionally long before his death.

How did you find me?  “Word of mouth, it gets around when there is a medium around not to mention one that is going to give us a chance to come through. I followed someone else here.”

Reason for visit? “I really just wanted to be heard. Its been so long since I actually had a conversation with someone. You take that for granted in life.”

Jonathans Questions

“Can I get through to loved ones?”  The best way to get through to your loved ones is through dreams. Its not scary and people seem much more receptive to this form of communication. Giving someone the same dream repeatedly also helps reinforce the message.

“How do I not scare people, I don’t want to be a creepy ghost?” First if your around a loved one and they start to feel scared back off, literally take a few steps back. Many people have a natural sensitivity to spirits and it creates a panic reaction in them. Try sending them loving thoughts and memories to connect them to you and to over ride those feelings of fear, If you are going to try to move something let it be something significant they can relate back to you. Try doing they same thing to multiple people so they can share their experiences with each other.

Then I took the time to discus crossing over and the light.  You know Jonathan there will be lots of people waiting for you on the other side. People you didn’t even realize were waiting. Everyone will be able to hear you and see you. There are lots of things to learn and experience there, plus you can come back to visit loved ones and you will no longer create that fear reflex in them. “Really?”  Yes, you can also choose to be reborn or return as a guide or guardian angel for a loved one.”Okay I am on board, lets do it!”  Dou you still have a light with you Jonathan? “Yeah but its  real small.”  Okay no problem, I am just going to help you expand it. I did this and he smiled, patted my hand and said goodbye. Then he walked through like it was no big deal.

Wow I was so surprised he crossed over like that. It made me think. How many times have I not taken the time to talk about crossing over to spirits I talk to. I just sort of take it for granted sometimes thinking they know about crossing over. If I wouldn’t have broached the subject he would have just kept on going about his merry way, earthbound. It took like 10 minutes to get him thinking about it. Also I am reminded again how lots of spirits really have no pressing business or important message. They just want to talk to someone and be acknowledged. I feel that! Must be a bit depressing not to be seen or heard. No wonder some spirits result in throwing tantrums and causing a ruckus. At least they know someone hears them!